In Memory of Ruby

Mike and I went back to the Neonatal Unit last night to hand over the money that all our friends and family had so generously donated - a total of £2835. We arranged to meet the Matron Karen and the Paediatrician Shelley who had looked after Ruby for the time we were there.

It felt strange to be back in the unit but in some ways a good thing to do to help with our healing. It was so great to see Shelley again and we both burst into tears when we saw each other. She really was such an amazing person and we believe went beyond the call of duty to help Ruby and support us. In fact the whole team on duty that weekend were amazing and really supported our families too during such a traumatic time.

They have decided to use the money to buy a syringe driver (costing £2100) and with the remainder have agreed with us to buy a tree and possibly a bench to put in the gardens that are directly underneath the unit. This will be so great as we will be able to have a plaque put there with Rubys name and details both on the bench and by the tree.

So, a wonderful memory of our beautiful girl will be everlasting in the garden and a piece of much needed equipment will be provided to help another little baby.

We are so proud of our girl and thank everyone again for their kind donations.